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Weaning From Breast Feeding
from: Maxx Family LifeWhen your baby has stopped breast feeding and gets all of his nutrition from other sources, he/she's actually considered weaned. Even though babies are also weaned from the bottle, the term weaning often refers to when a baby has stopped breast feeding.
When weaning is a mother's decision, it normally requires a lot of patience and can take time, depending on the age of your baby or toddler, and also how well your child adjusts. The overall experience is different for everyone.
Weaning is a long goodbye, sometimes emotional and sometimes painful. It doesn't however, signal the end to the intimacy you and your child have developed during the nursing stage. What it means is that you have to replace breast feeding with other types of nourishment.
Starting Weaning
As the mother, you're the best judge as to when it's the right time to wean, and you don't really have a deadline unless you and your child are actually ready to wean. The recommended time for weaning is one year. No matter what relatives, friends, or even complete strangers tell you, there's no right or wrong time.
How to Wean
You should proceed slowly, regardless of what the age of your child may be. Experts say you shouldn't abruptly withhold your breast, as the results can be traumatic. You should however, try these methods instead:
1. Skip a Feeding: Skip a feeding and see what happens, offering a cup of milk to your baby instead. As a substitute, you can use a bottle of your own pumped milk, formula, or regular cow's milk. If you reduce feedings one at a time, your child will eventually adjust to the changes.
2. Shorten Feeding Time: You can start by cutting the length of time your child is actually at the breast. If the normal feeding time is 5 minutes, reduce it to 3. Depending on the age, follow the feeding with a healthy snack. Bed time feedings are usually the hardest to wean, as they're normally the last to go.
3. Postpone and Distract: You can postpone feedings if you're only feeding a couple of times per day. This method works well if you have an older child you can actually reason with. If your child wants the breast, say that you'll feed later then distract him/her.
If you've tried everything and weaning doesn't seem to be working, maybe the time just isn't right. You can wait just a bit longer to see what happens, as your child and you have to determine the right time to wean together.